Marilyn Monroe was married three times, once as a sixteen-year-old brunette in the 1940s, and twice more at the height of her stardom. You don’t hear much about her wedding outfits, and I think that’s because she never chose to wear a classic wedding dress. Actually she did wear a traditional white wedding gown for her first wedding, but at that point she was still Norma Jean Baker and had a long way to go to become the star she evolved into.
I did a lot of research into this subject and I was overwhelmed with the volume of dresses which are being sold as ‘Marilyn Monroe wedding dresses’. They range in style from the Seven Year Itch white halterneck dress to 1950s bombshell full-skirted dresses, but I haven’t seen a single one that actually looks like any of the wedding outfits she wore!
Perhaps the real-life Marilyn doesn’t live up to the larger-than-life image of her people want to have, and after all her outfits were sophisticated and understated. Perhaps not the way people want to remember her.
So, here’s the truth of the matter:
Marilyn’s First Wedding to Jim Dougherty, 1942
I can’t find out many details about her wedding dress. Some sources say that the dress was borrowed, and some say that Marilyn’s Aunt Anna Lower made the dress. I guess it could have been both of those things.
From what I’ve seen, the dress was a typical 1940s shape with slightly padded shoulders and narrow waist. It was full-length, covered in lace (which I can’t draw, sorry!) with ruffles around the neckline and shoulders, long sleeves which went to a V point along the hands. She wore it with a 40s style headpiece and a medium length veil.
This is how Jim Dougherty later described the dress:
“Norma Jeane wore a pure white, long silken dress, with a short veil attached to her thick, curly hair. It was a borrowed dress, but that didn’t matter to either of us.”
Source: Jim Dougherty. To Norma Jeane with Love, Jimmie
James and Marilyn were divorced on September 13, 1946.
Marriage # 2: Joe DiMaggio, 1954
Marilyn married baseball superstar Joe DiMaggio on Jan 14th 1954 at San Francisco City Hall.
She wore a chocolate brown broadcloth (wool) pencil dress with matching jacket trimmed with a white Ermine fur peter pan collar. The jacket had a bow at the neck, white buttons and she wore it with a brooch at her throat. She forgot her coat in the media frenzy that awaited them and never went back for it. I wonder what happened to it…?
The dress and jacket sold at auction at Sotheby’s in 1998 for $33,350
Despite there being a scrum of photographers waiting for them outside the registry office, I’ve only been able to find photos of her with the jacket on, so I don’t know much about the top half of the dress, just that she wore the suit with open toe heels and white gloves.
The Monroe/DiMaggio wedding was tempestuous and troubled from the start. The marriage only lasted 8 months because of problems caused by Joe’s jealous nature and the pressures of fame (Marilyn suggested that Joe couldn’t handle her being more famous than him).
Despite this, it seems like Joe was a constant and reassuring presence throughout Marilyn’s turbulent life, and there were even rumours that they were planning to re-marry shortly before her death.
On his deathbed Joe’s last words was
‘I’ll finally get to see Marilyn’.
Marriage #3: Arthur Miller 1956
There was a total media frenzy surrounding the relationship between Marilyn and Miller, so much so that they rushed to get married in secret, and this is what Marilyn wore to the private civil ceremony (below). It was reported in the papers that she had worn ‘sweater, skirt and no hat’, by which they seemed to mean this beige blouse (worn with the sleeves rolled up for photographers afterwards, but rolled down and fastened with gold cufflinks for the ceremony) worn with gloves and a brown pencil skirt and dark brown leather belt.
A few days later, they had a Jewish wedding ceremony with Miller’s family and some friends. She wore a light beige gown designed by Norman Norell and costume designer John Moore. It was a light beige muslin gown with peasant neckline and satin belt. She couldn’t find a veil to match the dress so dyed it in coffee.
You can see the dress in the home video below, and it looks more of a light dusty pink to me, so that’s the colour I drew it!
See this dress in the video below
You can see a gallery of Marilyn’s wedding dresses on Pinterest here:
Follow We Heart Vintage’s board Marilyn Monroe’s weddings on Pinterest.
Image source and copyright: 1, 2, This work is in the public domain because it was published in the United States between 1923 and 1977 and without a copyright notice.
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Her dress when she married Joe DiMaggio was made by a Japanese lady l knew her son and he had the Veil for years as Marilyn gave it to her for a momento. It was lost in a storage unit that wasn’t paid for and l would bet the people that got it didn’t have a clue to who it actually belonged to
Such a shame Marilyn died or was she murdered only God knows.
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The only colour picture of her dark wedding suit that I ever found looks black to me rather than brown. https://i.pinimg.com/236x/dc/b8/5f/dcb85f62e2eef9e9760753bd94469ff6–marilyn-monroe-clothes-marilyn-monroe-wedding.jpg It may be bad lighting though, no idea. I’d looove to know for sure.
In the new CNN documentary “Reframed: Marilyn Monroe”, Marilyn’s friend Amy Greene says that for her wedding to Arthur Miller, Marilyn wore Amy’s veil which was originally white and was dyed with tea.